You know you've been playing too much Bioware when:

While playing X-Com, you really want to chat with Helpful XO Guy. "Yes yes, there's aliens and missions and all that, but let's talk about you! What are your hopes and your dreams? When the tie and sweater come off, who's underneath? We're saving the world together man, open up a bit!"

So far he's all business. Maybe I just need to do some more quests with him...